These books are recommended for their relevance to understanding these phenomena; we do not necessarily endorse all the contents.
Animal Farm, George Orwell, 1954. The animals take over Manor Farm, and everything is done with zealous equality. Too soon, however, the pigs, who have styled themselves leaders by virtue of their intelligence, succumb to the temptations of privilege and power and elevate themselves above their brethren. "The whole management and organization of the farm depend on us. Day and night, we are watching over your welfare." And thus they begin to lord it over the other animals, who are soon left hungry and exhausted.
The Boston Movement: Critical Perspectives on the International Churches of Christ, Carol Giambalvo & Herbert L. Rosedale, Editors. Lots of personal experiences with remarkable similarities to Assembly stories. The chapter on "An Examination of the Boston Movement in Relation to Thought Reform Criteria" is especially good.
Combatting Cult Mind Control , Steven Hassan. As a former member of the Moonies, Steve provides an inside view of cult life--its seductions, its abuses, and the deep psychological disturbances and personality changes it can cause. He tells the chilling story of his own recruitment and indoctrination; the painful realization that he had been lied to, manipulated, and robbed of his identity; and the long ordeal of returning to a normal, healthy life. Much as we may not want to believe it, his discussion of mind control is very pertinent to the Assembly and other Christian ministries. His approach is very balanced, caring and insightful.
His book Releasing the Bonds: Empowering People to Think for Themselves, is very helpful for those who have loved-ones and friends in a destructive group. It emphasizes the importance of staying in contact with the person, and offers a method to help awaken them to the pervasiveness of the group's control over their life. Hassan also has a website, Freedom of Mind.
Dangerous Persuaders, Louise Samways, a free online ebook, 86 pages. This is a succinct, thorough and excellent explanation of how people are drawn into abusive organizations, how the mind control works, and what it takes to get free. Highly recommended! A must-read for everyone who has been in a controlling group.
The Grief Recovery Handbook: The Action Program for Moving Beyond Death, Divorce, and Other Losses, John W. James & Russell Friedman. A little book packed with very helpful stuff for getting beyond the major multiple losses of the Assembly. The authors have an institute that provides certification to run grief recovery workshops which are offered in many churches and community centers. If you still have overwhelming sadness about the Assembly, try to find a workshop in your area, or get the book. When we left in 1990 we found a workshop at a church; the two leaders were excellent, and it was so helpful.
Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion , Dr. Robert Cialdini. All guests at Wellspring watch a video of Dr. Cialdini presenting the principles in this book. It's amazing to learn how someone like G. Geftakys used these same concepts on us.
Leaving the Saints: How I Lost the Mormons and Found My Faith, Martha Beck. A daughter of the Mormon Church's chief apologist recounts how she and her husband left the LDS a few years ago. Martha is a good writer and this riveting tale reads like fiction. There are similarities here to the Assembly that are absent from Brethrenism: the Mormons' apple-pie niceness, the sparkling cleanliness, the many children, the grow-a garden and bake-your-own-bread domesticity, plus disaster preparedness and the Franklin planner! Did G and B imbibe more from the Mormons than they would ever admit? Remember, before the Assembly they used to drive to Utah once a month to go witnessing.
The Lucifer Effect, Phillip Zimbardo. In 1971 Dr. Zimbardo conducted a famous experiment at Stanford University. He divided a group of college students into "prisoner" and "guards", and recorded their behavior over the course of a week. Tom Maddux says, "In this recent book, The Lucifer Effect, Zimbardo uses what was learned in this experiment to shed light on many incidents in history including the Abu Ghraib prison abuse scandal. He concludes that in just about any group of people there are factors present in human personalities that can be activated by placing the person in the right conditions. I think that this goes a long way to explain the way the Assembly leadership developed and behaved, as well as the response of those subject to their influence."
People of the Lie: Hope for Healing Human Evil M. Scott Peck. Peck's concept of evil is not intended to be theological; rather, it clarifies the nature of malignant narcissism, and so offers a very useful category for understanding George Geftakys.
The Poisonwood Bible Barbara Kingsolver, fiction. The story of a fiery Southern-Baptist style preacher, Nathan Price, who takes his wife and four daughters to the Congo in 1959 for a one-year short-term mission. The preacher character has many similarities to our own GG. The perceptions and reactions of the four daughters and the wife to his twisted version of Christianity are tragically insightful in terms of the Assembly. The true Christian faith and honorable missionary endeavor, however, are missing from this book.
Recovery from Cults: Help for Victims of Psychological and Spiritual Abuse Michael D. Langone, ed. 22 contributors write on the topics of mind control, leaving cults, facilitating recovery and special issues. Especially helpful are the chapters on "Guidelines for Families", "Guidelines for Ex-members", "Children and Cults", and the chapters on mind control.
Take Back Your Life: Recovering from Cults and Abusive Relationships Madeleine Landau Tobias and Janja Lalich (both former cult members. This is a comprehensive book which takes the former group member through all the necessary healing stages. It is both clear and compassionate, and is one of the few books on our list that deals at length with both sexual abuse, and children in cults. An excellent, excellent book. Several excerpts are available online. Take Back Your Life (2006) is a revised and updated version of Captive Hearts, Captive Minds, also excellent.
Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism: A Study of Bainwashing in China Robert Jay Lifton. This continues to be an essential work for understanding the not only the techniques of mind control that continue to be utilized by authoritarian governments as well as by destructive cults, but the subtle psychological effects on those on whom it is practiced. Everyone is assigned to read it at Wellspring. At first you think, "This is about China in the 1950's - how is this relevant to my situation?" But as you read people's descriptions in their own words about how their thinking was changed, and how the changes persisted even after they were released, you start thinking, "That's me! This is so amazing!"
Visions of Glory: A History and a Memory of Jehovah's Witnesses Barbara Grizzuti Harrison. This book is both a history of the JW's, and the personal story of the author's childhood in the Watchtower Society in the 1950's and her escape as a teenager. Amazing parallels with the Assembly.
CommentsEditor: Here's a book that doesn't fit the categories, The Brothers K, David James Duncan, fiction. Over 600 pages--very long--and yet this story of a large family in the '60s holds you in it's grip until the last page. The mother's fanatical Seventh Day Adventism is played off against the father's intense devotion to baseball. The best thing about the book is the grace that comes from neither of the "religions" but from the family relationships that refuse to be smothered by the dogmas.
On another note, K. Gordon Neufeld, a former Moonie, wrote an in which he analyzes several twentieth century novels that "capture the essence of totalitarian regimes". He includes George Orwell's 1984, Arthur Koestler's Darkness at Noon, One Man's Bible by Gao Xingjian, Three Continents by Ruth Prawar Jhabvala, Oyster by Jannette Turner Hospital, Heavenly Deception by Maggie Brooks and Joseph Conrad's Heart of Darkness.